thank u for sending me on my website ..i think it is not good to tell that guy about your feeling it may cause problems with his wife so may ALLAH send u a better .. what about the other section of your question u shoud not to say as u said u have a wrong idea about islam ! what thing u have to know that some of muslims are not on the right way of islam they do alot of acts outside of islam Instructions so do not look at islam by one eye or by thier bad behaviores it is not justice to judge Islam by Muslims , not all Muslims represent Islam but sometimes Islam ..indeed , in some cases Islam acquitted of the reaction of some Muslims like the issue of terrorism . what about the veil for women , there are some words to say not that woman must to cover her face and hands.. u have to knwo that Islam didnot spread by sword but that history prove that the copts lived happily in Islams , as well as turks in the time muhammed alfatih..